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Sir Doof
Posts : 209 UT points : 5696 Join date : 2009-11-08 Age : 30 Location : North Carolina
| Subject: Everything was thrown back in my face Tue May 11, 2010 7:58 pm | |
| So I talked to her about all of it...she turned it all around and shoved it back in my face...making me feel like an idiot....and I really just give up now...this is something I just won't be able to get over.... | |
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Beastof2000
Posts : 654 UT points : 5880 Join date : 2010-04-03 Age : 27 Location : United States, OK
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Tue May 11, 2010 9:17 pm | |
| You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested. | |
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Sir Doof
Posts : 209 UT points : 5696 Join date : 2009-11-08 Age : 30 Location : North Carolina
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 3:54 am | |
| - Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
:/ Well if you were me this comment would hurt alittle... You just don't understand how I feel right now... | |
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Beastof2000
Posts : 654 UT points : 5880 Join date : 2010-04-03 Age : 27 Location : United States, OK
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 5:18 am | |
| - Timmy wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
:/ Well if you were me this comment would hurt alittle... You just don't understand how I feel right now... If you found someone else it'd make you forget about. | |
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Sir Doof
Posts : 209 UT points : 5696 Join date : 2009-11-08 Age : 30 Location : North Carolina
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 12:56 pm | |
| - Beastof2000 wrote:
- Timmy wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
:/ Well if you were me this comment would hurt alittle... You just don't understand how I feel right now... If you found someone else it'd make you forget about. You will understand why I don't want to leave her when you get older. | |
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Pokemon Tranier Robert
Posts : 200 UT points : 5543 Join date : 2009-10-20 Age : 32 Location : Back in Florida
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 1:03 pm | |
| - Timmy wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- Timmy wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
:/ Well if you were me this comment would hurt alittle... You just don't understand how I feel right now... If you found someone else it'd make you forget about.
You will understand why I don't want to leave her when you get older. Beast is right find someone else and you will get over her real quick. and its a high school romance they never last. only 1 out if 1,234,567,891,011,121,314,151,617,181,920 actually last | |
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boris5000
Posts : 426 UT points : 6209 Join date : 2009-05-28 Age : 31 Location : London, UK
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 1:32 pm | |
| - Pokemon Tranier Robert wrote:
- Timmy wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- Timmy wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
:/ Well if you were me this comment would hurt alittle... You just don't understand how I feel right now... If you found someone else it'd make you forget about.
You will understand why I don't want to leave her when you get older. Beast is right find someone else and you will get over her real quick. and its a high school romance they never last. only 1 out if 1,234,567,891,011,121,314,151,617,181,920 actually last Does this having something to do with the last thread you posted? If so, well, its a clear sign to just stop whatever you are doing. Move on. Now if you really want to upset them. Don't start talking about her behind you back. Be indifferent - this means don't start hatin'. This will probably enrage her as it wont give her what she wants. I've done this to my ex for about a year. She still hates me (Unfortunatly it means I have next to no chance withany female she is friends with) | |
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mrcatz
Posts : 1982 UT points : 8675 Join date : 2009-05-25 Age : 29 Location : you wonder why your mom was acting strange this morning O.o
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 3:17 pm | |
| - boris5000 wrote:
- Pokemon Tranier Robert wrote:
- Timmy wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- Timmy wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
:/ Well if you were me this comment would hurt alittle... You just don't understand how I feel right now... If you found someone else it'd make you forget about.
You will understand why I don't want to leave her when you get older. Beast is right find someone else and you will get over her real quick. and its a high school romance they never last. only 1 out if 1,234,567,891,011,121,314,151,617,181,920 actually last Does this having something to do with the last thread you posted? If so, well, its a clear sign to just stop whatever you are doing. Move on.
Now if you really want to upset them. Don't start talking about her behind you back. Be indifferent - this means don't start hatin'. This will probably enrage her as it wont give her what she wants. I've done this to my ex for about a year. She still hates me (Unfortunatly it means I have next to no chance withany female she is friends with) yeah boris is right. Your first way didn't work so obviousely you're doing something wrong. I am sorry though cuz I hate to see you upset | |
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Sir Doof
Posts : 209 UT points : 5696 Join date : 2009-11-08 Age : 30 Location : North Carolina
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 5:07 pm | |
| :/ thanks everyone... I figure...I should do the right thing...just apologize to her instead...and just move on...even if there is an empty feeling in my heart right now.. | |
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pdwinnall
Posts : 183 UT points : 5657 Join date : 2009-10-06 Age : 29 Location : Birmingham, England BABY!!
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 5:14 pm | |
| - Pokemon Tranier Robert wrote:
Beast is right find someone else and you will get over her real quick. and its a high school romance they never last. only 1 out if 1,234,567,891,011,121,314,151,617,181,920 actually last[/quote] Quoted for truth. I'm sorry I can't really offer any help. But you'll get over her if you just find someone else. My mate was heartbroken after his 2-year relationship was broken. But now he's the happiest I've ever seen him, and he's even said, it's awesome to be free. | |
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cdplayar
Posts : 1468 UT points : 7930 Join date : 2009-08-10 Age : 27 Location : Ontario, Canada!
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 5:29 pm | |
| - Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
That's totally not rude towards females and that totally is the correct response for this situation[/sarcasm] Timmy, I know how you feel, but if she's gonna be a total... meanie pants... you gotta be a total nicey pants. You have to overcome her with kindness. Make her feel really bad she did that. *IM ALSO REFERRING TO YOUR OTHER TOPIC* But just ignore her, she's a meanie. Don't associate yourself with her. Delete her on facebook. Msn, Because one dya, she'll say the wrong thing to the wrong person/in the wrong place, and you might be associated wit hit. So just lose contact. But you may want to refer to a trusted adult. For support. | |
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SoulSilverHeartGold
Posts : 2486 UT points : 7102 Join date : 2009-08-12 Age : 26 Location : Canada
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 6:36 pm | |
| CDplayar is right she hurt you enough telling from the stories I hear from you. Anyways ignore her she is a (insert word you want to describe her here) to you
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cdplayar
Posts : 1468 UT points : 7930 Join date : 2009-08-10 Age : 27 Location : Ontario, Canada!
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 6:50 pm | |
| - SoulSilverHeartGold wrote:
- CDplayar is right she hurt you enough telling from the stories I hear from you. Anyways ignore her she is a ***** to you
WATCH THE LANGUAGE! D:< THAT IS A WARNING LITTLE MISTER! | |
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Gir
Posts : 534 UT points : 6260 Join date : 2010-03-08 Age : 30
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 7:14 pm | |
| - cdplayar wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
That's totally not rude towards females and that totally is the correct response for this situation[/sarcasm]
[/i][/center] Umm, how to put it? how to put it? 1.- Beasts post was not offensive towards women 2.- That is the best way to deal with the situation. Seriously, if a chick you treat nice time after time and deposit trust on, and time after time turns her back to you, whats the solution? Simply get over it and look for a better girl for you, thats common sense. | |
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GaiaAero Junior Moderator
Posts : 466 UT points : 6385 Join date : 2009-06-09 Age : 29
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 7:20 pm | |
| - cdplayar wrote:
- SoulSilverHeartGold wrote:
- CDplayar is right she hurt you enough telling from the stories I hear from you. Anyways ignore her she is a ***** to you
WATCH THE LANGUAGE! D:< THAT IS A WARNING LITTLE MISTER! calm down no need to cap all your posts just makes you look less mature than you are | |
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cdplayar
Posts : 1468 UT points : 7930 Join date : 2009-08-10 Age : 27 Location : Ontario, Canada!
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 7:25 pm | |
| - GaiaAero wrote:
- cdplayar wrote:
- SoulSilverHeartGold wrote:
- CDplayar is right she hurt you enough telling from the stories I hear from you. Anyways ignore her she is a ***** to you
WATCH THE LANGUAGE! D:< THAT IS A WARNING LITTLE MISTER! calm down no need to cap all your posts just makes you look less mature than you are Don't try to pick a fight Gaia. It's not worth it. And also, me and Dawson are friends, he knows I'm playing around with the caps. - L wrote:
- cdplayar wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
That's totally not rude towards females and that totally is the correct response for this situation[/sarcasm]
[/i][/center] Umm, how to put it? how to put it? 1.- Beasts post was not offensive towards women 2.- That is the best way to deal with the situation. Seriously, if a chick you treat nice time after time and deposit trust on, and time after time turns her back to you, whats the solution? Simply get over it and look for a better girl for you, thats common sense. Almost all the girls I have ever spoken to dislike being referred to as "chicks" So yes, it IS offensive.
And they way he phrased it wasn't appropriate. So why are people telling me I'm wrong? I never said i disagree with the method. But the harsh wording made it seem rude. | |
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Gir
Posts : 534 UT points : 6260 Join date : 2010-03-08 Age : 30
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 7:43 pm | |
| - cdplayar wrote:
- GaiaAero wrote:
- cdplayar wrote:
- SoulSilverHeartGold wrote:
- CDplayar is right she hurt you enough telling from the stories I hear from you. Anyways ignore her she is a ***** to you
WATCH THE LANGUAGE! D:< THAT IS A WARNING LITTLE MISTER! calm down no need to cap all your posts just makes you look less mature than you are
Don't try to pick a fight Gaia. It's not worth it. And also, me and Dawson are friends, he knows I'm playing around with the caps.
- L wrote:
- cdplayar wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
That's totally not rude towards females and that totally is the correct response for this situation[/sarcasm]
[/i][/center] Umm, how to put it? how to put it? 1.- Beasts post was not offensive towards women 2.- That is the best way to deal with the situation. Seriously, if a chick you treat nice time after time and deposit trust on, and time after time turns her back to you, whats the solution? Simply get over it and look for a better girl for you, thats common sense.
Almost all the girls I have ever spoken to dislike being referred to as "chicks" So yes, it IS offensive.
And they way he phrased it wasn't appropriate. So why are people telling me I'm wrong? I never said i disagree with the method. But the harsh wording made it seem rude. The harsh wording as you call it was changing the word "girls" for "chicks", big deal, theres a difference between calling a girl "chick" in a friendly, non-offensive way and calling it chick like a pimp wannabe, the context tells you the intention of the word, and is Beast`s post, its clearly the first scenario. And, now, allow me to point at the bolded part. So, basically, the first phrase says Beast`s method is not the right solution, yet when I face you about it, you say you never disagreed with it...contradiction much? | |
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cdplayar
Posts : 1468 UT points : 7930 Join date : 2009-08-10 Age : 27 Location : Ontario, Canada!
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 7:46 pm | |
| - L wrote:
- cdplayar wrote:
- GaiaAero wrote:
- cdplayar wrote:
- SoulSilverHeartGold wrote:
- CDplayar is right she hurt you enough telling from the stories I hear from you. Anyways ignore her she is a ***** to you
WATCH THE LANGUAGE! D:< THAT IS A WARNING LITTLE MISTER! calm down no need to cap all your posts just makes you look less mature than you are
Don't try to pick a fight Gaia. It's not worth it. And also, me and Dawson are friends, he knows I'm playing around with the caps.
- L wrote:
- cdplayar wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
That's totally not rude towards females [/sarcasm]and that totally is the correct response for this situation
[/i][/center] Umm, how to put it? how to put it? 1.- Beasts post was not offensive towards women 2.- That is the best way to deal with the situation. Seriously, if a chick you treat nice time after time and deposit trust on, and time after time turns her back to you, whats the solution? Simply get over it and look for a better girl for you, thats common sense.
Almost all the girls I have ever spoken to dislike being referred to as "chicks" So yes, it IS offensive.
And they way he phrased it wasn't appropriate. So why are people telling me I'm wrong? I never said i disagree with the method. But the harsh wording made it seem rude. The harsh wording as you call it was changing the word "girls" for "chicks", big deal, theres a difference between calling a girl "chick" in a friendly, non-offensive way and calling it chick like a pimp wannabe, the context tells you the intention of the word, and is Beast`s post, its clearly the first scenario. And, now, allow me to point at the bolded part. So, basically, the first phrase says Beast`s method is not the right solution, yet when I face you about it, you say you never disagreed with it...contradiction much? So you want me, to go into EVERY detail about the post? The sarcasm was for the first part. Here, I'll fix it!
There ya go. Now people can stop flaming me, and we can all go to bed happy. <3 | |
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GaiaAero Junior Moderator
Posts : 466 UT points : 6385 Join date : 2009-06-09 Age : 29
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 7:48 pm | |
| - cdplayar wrote:
- GaiaAero wrote:
- cdplayar wrote:
- SoulSilverHeartGold wrote:
- CDplayar is right she hurt you enough telling from the stories I hear from you. Anyways ignore her she is a ***** to you
WATCH THE LANGUAGE! D:< THAT IS A WARNING LITTLE MISTER! calm down no need to cap all your posts just makes you look less mature than you are
Don't try to pick a fight Gaia. It's not worth it. And also, me and Dawson are friends, he knows I'm playing around with the caps.
- L wrote:
- cdplayar wrote:
- Beastof2000 wrote:
- You should just find another chick she's obviously not interested.
That's totally not rude towards females and that totally is the correct response for this situation[/sarcasm]
[/i][/center] Umm, how to put it? how to put it? 1.- Beasts post was not offensive towards women 2.- That is the best way to deal with the situation. Seriously, if a chick you treat nice time after time and deposit trust on, and time after time turns her back to you, whats the solution? Simply get over it and look for a better girl for you, thats common sense.
Almost all the girls I have ever spoken to dislike being referred to as "chicks" So yes, it IS offensive.
And they way he phrased it wasn't appropriate. So why are people telling me I'm wrong? I never said i disagree with the method. But the harsh wording made it seem rude. I wasn't trying to pick a fight with you I was just giving you advice. | |
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Gir
Posts : 534 UT points : 6260 Join date : 2010-03-08 Age : 30
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 7:49 pm | |
| Well...yes, a single word, period, comma, question mark etc can change the whole meaning of a sentence. If you make a post, then you gotta make sure the idea can get across correctly, so you gotta watch for every detail. | |
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Sir Doof
Posts : 209 UT points : 5696 Join date : 2009-11-08 Age : 30 Location : North Carolina
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 7:52 pm | |
| ._. please no fighting in my thread.... :/ let alone you guys are fighting....about nothing really important.. well atm it isn't but the whole girls and chicks thing... Girls have enough power to defend themselves in my view. | |
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Elfar Senior Moderator
Posts : 1096 UT points : 6556 Join date : 2009-10-26 Age : 27 Location : It's a small world. Who knows?
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 7:55 pm | |
| Seriously, stay on course, as Timmy has a matter which is the reason that he posted here.
On to the problem. Let me just say that, after your general choices and views, the main thing is who you allow into your life. Choose with care from now on. | |
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Administrator Owner
Posts : 313 UT points : 7419 Join date : 2009-05-03
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 8:26 pm | |
| I'm just gonna toss this in: You're only 16 dude. Don't get too worked up over a girl, you have plenty of years ahead of you. | |
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Sir Doof
Posts : 209 UT points : 5696 Join date : 2009-11-08 Age : 30 Location : North Carolina
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 8:29 pm | |
| - Uutton wrote:
- I'm just gonna toss this in: You're only 16 dude. Don't get too worked up over a girl, you have plenty of years ahead of you.
:/ I thought about that...to me I'm not that young anymore...when I use to get rejected...it didn't hurt this bad...I would love to tell my very personal reason behind this...but for one I will get in trouble...and two...it shouldn't be said to anyone.... | |
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Administrator Owner
Posts : 313 UT points : 7419 Join date : 2009-05-03
| Subject: Re: Everything was thrown back in my face Wed May 12, 2010 8:31 pm | |
| I have an idea of what you're thinking, but trust me dude, it's not worth it. To have it on your mind, sure, but don't let it hurt you in other areas of life. If it doesn't get sorted out, I'm almost positive that you'll look back and wish you had let it go now. | |
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