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PostSubject: how strange...   Thu Jul 22, 2010 11:05 am

Ok
So I know someone on the internet who is in a "relationship" with someone else on the internet.

Anywho
She's 16 and He's 13 (his gender is debatable though)
They have been "going out" for about a year already.

My problems:


1. You may be given pictures of that person, but is he really all that he's/she's cracked up to be? Can you really trust a person on THE INTERNET that the photo given was really him/her?

2. If you're not given the photo, how can you know your "lover's" gender? People can lie on the Internet. You can't trust ANYONE on the internet unless you personally know them.

A divorced woman got on an online video game and hooked up with a "boyfriend" that lived a couple of states away. It turns out that HE was actually a SHE. Talk about awkward.

3. You cannot get it on, kiss, hug, hold hands, or other physical activities with someone over the internet. Unless you're desperate enough, I suppose you could try humping your hard drive and see what happens.

4. You may have a double crosser. While you're enjoying your relationship with you're "lover" the person on the other end may decided to cheat on you without telling you. Of course, this drama could be avoided if you didn't have this relationship in the first place.

Anywho those are my issues on the matter.
Your opinion?
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Thu Jul 22, 2010 11:11 am

ya? so?

i know a couple who has a 4 year age difference.

let them have their fun, and let them learn their lesson :L
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Thu Jul 22, 2010 11:12 am

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ya? so?

i know a couple who has a 4 year age difference.

let them have their fun, and let them learn their lesson :L

CAUZ THE INTERNETZ IS TEH SORUCE FOR LUV
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Thu Jul 22, 2010 11:45 am

I cant say anything on the age thing, although I'm not over the internet and all that, so yea.

As for internet relationships, its the same as a long distance relationship, the problem is with the internet, it means that you will -never- have that physical contact, which is a must.

As a friend of mine used to tell me; Out of sight, out of mind.

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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Thu Jul 22, 2010 4:01 pm

The age thing only matters during years as a teen, when you become an adult, you'll often find couples with 10 years diffrence. i dont have a opinon about this sort of thing tho Razz
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Thu Jul 22, 2010 4:58 pm

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The age thing only matters during years as a teen, when you become an adult, you'll often find couples with 10 years diffrence. i dont have a opinon about this sort of thing tho Razz

ya
it's just a little awkward when their younger imo

My parents are about 11 years apart in age.
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Thu Jul 22, 2010 5:09 pm

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dragonmxz wrote:
The age thing only matters during years as a teen, when you become an adult, you'll often find couples with 10 years diffrence. i dont have a opinon about this sort of thing tho Razz

ya
it's just a little awkward when their younger imo

My parents are about 11 years apart in age.
SAY WHAT???
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Thu Jul 22, 2010 5:11 pm

FreaKaz0id wrote:
Noble Roar wrote:
dragonmxz wrote:
The age thing only matters during years as a teen, when you become an adult, you'll often find couples with 10 years diffrence. i dont have a opinon about this sort of thing tho Razz

ya
it's just a little awkward when their younger imo

My parents are about 11 years apart in age.
SAY WHAT???
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Thu Jul 22, 2010 5:17 pm

online reationship=fail
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Fri Jul 23, 2010 3:22 pm

*AHEM* We have E-Harmony for a reason pplz!

Relationships online can be somewhat successful I surmise. Not that I would know but I think it's silly but hey it works for some people....it doesn't work for some. There is Skype for a reason lol. You can have live video chats and stuff like that to prove it. IDEK
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Fri Jul 23, 2010 4:14 pm

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*AHEM* We have E-Harmony for a reason pplz!

Relationships online can be somewhat successful I surmise. Not that I would know but I think it's silly but hey it works for some people....it doesn't work for some. There is Skype for a reason lol. You can have live video chats and stuff like that to prove it. IDEK

Eharmony isn't too bad
at least you get to meet the person

I'm talkin about not even meeting the person period
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Fri Jul 23, 2010 6:14 pm

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ya
it's just a little awkward when their younger imo.
when you hit 18+, it doesn't matter much anymore, people will find it weird in the beginning, but they tend to get over it really quickly after the realize its nothing pedo-ish

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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Fri Jul 23, 2010 6:19 pm

Kanrik wrote:
Noble Roar wrote:

ya
it's just a little awkward when their younger imo.
when you hit 18+, it doesn't matter much anymore, people will find it weird in the beginning, but they tend to get over it really quickly after the realize its nothing pedo-ish

hello thar young one
I know a lot of friends who were freshmen going out with seniors >_>
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Sat Jul 24, 2010 2:30 am

Noble Roar wrote:
Ok
So I know someone on the internet who is in a "relationship" with someone else on the internet.

Anywho
She's 16 and He's 13 (his gender is debatable though)
They have been "going out" for about a year already.

My problems:


1. You may be given pictures of that person, but is he really all that he's/she's cracked up to be? Can you really trust a person on THE INTERNET that the photo given was really him/her?
if you really dont trust the person you can ask for a picture with the person in a certain pose or sign
2. If you're not given the photo, how can you know your "lover's" gender? People can lie on the Internet. You can't trust ANYONE on the internet unless you personally know them.
im assuming these ppl both have cell phones and texting, if so i wouldnt be surprised if they sent pictures that can confirm the others gender...
A divorced woman got on an online video game and hooked up with a "boyfriend" that lived a couple of states away. It turns out that HE was actually a SHE. Talk about awkward.
thats rly awkward but a lot of adults (at least in my experience) are not as internet friendly as most kids are and i think it would be easier to trick an adult who has resorted to dating online than a teen
3. You cannot get it on, kiss, hug, hold hands, or other physical activities with someone over the internet. Unless you're desperate enough, I suppose you could try humping your hard drive and see what happens.
i would bet money that most ppl who get into online dating arent doing much of the above or would be content with just being able to talk with someone as more than a friend
4. You may have a double crosser. While you're enjoying your relationship with you're "lover" the person on the other end may decided to cheat on you without telling you. Of course, this drama could be avoided if you didn't have this relationship in the first place.
i would say chances of cheating are just as likely (or less even consider someone who is trying to finde a gf/bf online probly isnt getting to much tail anyway)
Anywho those are my issues on the matter.
Your opinion?

i would feel awkward about having a friend that was dating long distance but if it made them happy, they werent doing it just to have a bf/gf, and they were being safe about it (not giving out any information thats could be harmful) at least until they were together for a while, then i would support it

and as far as im concerned your just as likely to have someone screw you over to your face as you are on the internet

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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Sat Jul 24, 2010 9:44 am

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Kanrik wrote:
Noble Roar wrote:

ya
it's just a little awkward when their younger imo.
when you hit 18+, it doesn't matter much anymore, people will find it weird in the beginning, but they tend to get over it really quickly after the realize its nothing pedo-ish

hello thar young one
I know a lot of friends who were freshmen going out with seniors >_>
*points to self*
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Sat Jul 24, 2010 12:52 pm

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Noble Roar wrote:
Ok
So I know someone on the internet who is in a "relationship" with someone else on the internet.

Anywho
She's 16 and He's 13 (his gender is debatable though)
They have been "going out" for about a year already.

My problems:


1. You may be given pictures of that person, but is he really all that he's/she's cracked up to be? Can you really trust a person on THE INTERNET that the photo given was really him/her?
if you really dont trust the person you can ask for a picture with the person in a certain pose or sign
2. If you're not given the photo, how can you know your "lover's" gender? People can lie on the Internet. You can't trust ANYONE on the internet unless you personally know them.
im assuming these ppl both have cell phones and texting, if so i wouldnt be surprised if they sent pictures that can confirm the others gender...
A divorced woman got on an online video game and hooked up with a "boyfriend" that lived a couple of states away. It turns out that HE was actually a SHE. Talk about awkward.
thats rly awkward but a lot of adults (at least in my experience) are not as internet friendly as most kids are and i think it would be easier to trick an adult who has resorted to dating online than a teen
3. You cannot get it on, kiss, hug, hold hands, or other physical activities with someone over the internet. Unless you're desperate enough, I suppose you could try humping your hard drive and see what happens.
i would bet money that most ppl who get into online dating arent doing much of the above or would be content with just being able to talk with someone as more than a friend
4. You may have a double crosser. While you're enjoying your relationship with you're "lover" the person on the other end may decided to cheat on you without telling you. Of course, this drama could be avoided if you didn't have this relationship in the first place.
i would say chances of cheating are just as likely (or less even consider someone who is trying to finde a gf/bf online probly isnt getting to much tail anyway)
Anywho those are my issues on the matter.
Your opinion?

i would feel awkward about having a friend that was dating long distance but if it made them happy, they werent doing it just to have a bf/gf, and they were being safe about it (not giving out any information thats could be harmful) at least until they were together for a while, then i would support it

and as far as im concerned your just as likely to have someone screw you over to your face as you are on the internet

I wouldn't support it in general.

Basically the whole deal of being afraid of rejection. And/or lack of self confidence

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Noble Roar wrote:
Kanrik wrote:
Noble Roar wrote:

ya
it's just a little awkward when their younger imo.
when you hit 18+, it doesn't matter much anymore, people will find it weird in the beginning, but they tend to get over it really quickly after the realize its nothing pedo-ish

hello thar young one
I know a lot of friends who were freshmen going out with seniors >_>
*points to self*
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Sat Jul 24, 2010 2:13 pm

Wasn't pedo bear level at the time, its all good

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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Sat Jul 24, 2010 5:30 pm

Kanrik wrote:
Wasn't pedo bear level at the time, its all good

yaaaa
my friend
who was a freshman
hooked up with a senior
the senior is gone
and the last week of school she hooked up with someone her age
her senior boyfriend almost found out
and she was trying desperately for him not to find out.
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PostSubject: Re: how strange...   Sat Jul 24, 2010 6:06 pm



That story about the video game made me lol.
Very Happy

ANYWAYS; I think online relationships are fine and dandy if you are just looking for a local and you're like, 18+.
Now when you don't have physical contact, well it's not really that kind of relationship than, is it?
Although, sometimes it's nice to have somebody to talk to.
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