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PostSubject: Never Been So Worried   Mon Sep 13, 2010 8:32 pm

So today after band practice, my ex girlfriend comes up to me with tears in her eyes and holds out her arms. So i give her a hug and ask her what wrong and what she told me that she was going to the doctor tomorrow.

I was getting kinda worried so i asked why.

It turns out she might have Breast Cancer. She said that last night she noticed a bump in the shower so shes going to the hospital tomorrow.

Now im so worried im about to be sick. I dont know what to do. Im trying to comfort her but she can hear the waiver in my voice.

Also ive been holding back my feelings for her cause even though we boke up last month, i still love her (and if its not love im feeling ats darn close). and when she told me this all these feelings came back.

What do i do?
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Mon Sep 13, 2010 10:00 pm

If she ends up having cancer, the only thing you can do is be by her side until the end.
Thats the only advice I can give you.

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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 3:46 am

Get the tumor removed, and be done with the whole deal, best case scenario.
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 8:46 am

Evil wrote:
Get the tumor removed, and be done with the whole deal, best case scenario.
That doesn't always work evil -.-

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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 1:00 pm

Kanrik wrote:
Evil wrote:
Get the tumor removed, and be done with the whole deal, best case scenario.
That doesn't always work evil -.-

but we can hope right? :3

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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 2:29 pm

I'm not really smart when it comes to diseases and such, but if she did discover it relatively early, I would assume that it would be treatable since it hasn't had much time to do damage.

Anyways, you should just remain strong and make sure she knows that you will be there for her no matter what.
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 3:13 pm

Evil wrote:
Kanrik wrote:
Evil wrote:
Get the tumor removed, and be done with the whole deal, best case scenario.
That doesn't always work evil -.-

but we can hope right? :3


*Hope*

Anyways good luck Sad The REAL best case scenario is the bump is a bump and nothing else...
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 3:16 pm

No one ever likes being told that they are going to die, be it cancer, AIDS or other disorders/syndromes e.t.c
Unfortunatly, being there to comfort isn't the only thing that is the "right" thing to do. While yes, death is an unfortunate happenstance. It should not come between her normal life - So you really should treat her as if she does not have cancer (if she has it) until she has become debilitated.

On the other hand it could be a Fibroadenoma which is relatively harmless, a simple biopsy would soon distinguish if it is cancer or not.

On the other hand, breast cancer patients have a 98% survival rate if found early on.
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 6:35 pm

ok so she went to the doctor and they think it's just a syst
shes getting a ultasound tomorrow just to se safe
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 6:55 pm

I remember my dog got a tumor once my mom noticed it while I was at my friends house he lived though

Thats good news though but if she does have cancer just hope
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 7:05 pm

That's great it's probably a syst!
I do hope she feels better though,
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 7:11 pm

hope and prayer is all I can say. Just be with her and let her know you care
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 7:22 pm

I've had family members who have had cancer and I've learned the mental state is half the battle. If you can stay optimistic then you're halfway there, I know that sounds like really stupid but it's true. I don't exactly know what a syst is lol.
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 7:29 pm

We're all here with you buddy, I'll pray for you.
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 7:38 pm

Neku wrote:
I've had family members who have had cancer and I've learned the mental state is half the battle. If you can stay optimistic then you're halfway there, I know that sounds like really stupid but it's true. I don't exactly know what a syst is lol.

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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 8:25 pm

Neku wrote:
I don't exactly know what a syst is lol.


trust me there is a HUGE difference. Cyst is 100 times better then cancer
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 9:07 pm

thanks for the support guys, i showed her this page and she started crying (happy tears) Smile
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 9:10 pm

song0flife wrote:
thanks for the support guys, i showed her this page and she started crying (happy tears) Smile

yay, This proves that knowing people are supporting you can make a tough journey easier.
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Tue Sep 14, 2010 11:08 pm

song0flife wrote:
thanks for the support guys, i showed her this page and she started crying (happy tears) Smile
Did she notice how sexy my icon is
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Wed Sep 15, 2010 9:39 am

song0flife wrote:
thanks for the support guys, i showed her this page and she started crying (happy tears) Smile

Well, atleast you didn't post this on 4chan...
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Wed Sep 15, 2010 1:22 pm

boris5000 wrote:
song0flife wrote:
thanks for the support guys, i showed her this page and she started crying (happy tears) Smile

Well, atleast you didn't post this on 4chan...
A sick and twisted meme would have been formed.
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Wed Sep 15, 2010 3:00 pm

Makeitwork wrote:
boris5000 wrote:
song0flife wrote:
thanks for the support guys, i showed her this page and she started crying (happy tears) Smile

Well, atleast you didn't post this on 4chan...
A sick and twisted meme would have been formed.

cancer there was always a saying, nothing new here

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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Wed Sep 15, 2010 5:56 pm

Well... sorry to hear that. My aunt died of cancer last year. A few hours before my birthday... But try to keep cool in a crisis like this. She thinks she might have cancer. And plus, they can remove it and it could be better. So if it doesn't work, do what Kanrik said.
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Sat Oct 02, 2010 12:57 am

I feel bad, even moreso because my mom had cancer.
I hope you're GF makes it out ok.
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PostSubject: Re: Never Been So Worried   Sat Oct 02, 2010 2:43 am

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I feel bad, even moreso because my mom had cancer.
I hope you're GF makes it out ok.
Thread Necromancy is never a good thing.
Please do not bring old topics back to life. (Locked)

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